Second lecture by Shaykh Hammad explores heroic sacrifice and generosity in Futuwwa

Shaykh Hammad Mustafa al-Madani al-Qadri delivered the second keynote lecture in the ongoing series, “The Spirit of Chivalry in the 21st Century”, titled “Heroic Sacrifice and Generosity in Futuwwa (Chivalry)”. This lecture delved into the essence of Futuwwa, which centres on selflessness, sacrifice, and unwavering generosity, both material and spiritual, as a means of attaining the proximity and pleasure of Allah ﷻ.

Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri began by discussing the spiritual foundation of Futuwwa, explaining that it transcends the act of giving wealth or possessions. He emphasised that true Futuwwa is reflected in giving one’s time, energy, and emotions for the benefit of others. Sacrifice and generosity in this context go beyond superficial charity and extend to embodying noble traits of character and thoughtfulness in all actions.

Drawing upon numerous examples from Islamic history, Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri highlighted the extraordinary generosity of the pious predecessors and their ability to prioritise others’ needs over their own. He quoted the Qur’anic verse:

“And give them (emigrants) preference over themselves, even though they were in need of that.”

Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri explained that Futuwwa is not about forsaking worldly pleasures entirely but about redirecting desires towards serving others and seeking Allah’s pleasure. He urged participants to identify what they value most—whether time, wealth, or personal comfort—and to learn to sacrifice it for the benefit of others. This process, known as ithar (selflessness), is at the heart of Futuwwa.

Shaykh Hammad Mustafa al-Madani al-Qadri shared examples of historical figures who demonstrated unparalleled generosity. He recounted the story of a Companion who gave away his family’s last meal to a guest of the Holy Prophet ﷺ, pretending to eat in the dim light so the guest would not feel embarrassed. This act of selflessness became immortalised in the Qur’anic verse:

“And they give food, inspite of their love for it (or for the love of Him), to Miskin (poor), the orphan, and the captive.”

Another story highlighted the sacrifice of Imam Jafar al-Sadiq, who was falsely accused of stealing a wallet. Instead of defending himself, he gave the man 1,000 dinars to ease his distress, refusing to take the money back even when the truth was revealed. This act exemplified the level of generosity and humility that Futuwwa demands.

Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri emphasised that Futuwwa also requires steadfastness (istiqamah). He warned against spiritual highs that quickly fade and encouraged consistency in small, meaningful acts of worship, charity, and generosity. He quoted the Holy Prophet ﷺ, who said:

“The most beloved deeds to Allah are those done consistently, even if small.”

The lecture also explored the concept of zuhd (detachment from the world). Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri explained that zuhd is not about abandoning wealth or comforts entirely but about ensuring that the heart is not attached to them. He encouraged participants to practice moderation, avoiding extravagance while maintaining gratitude and humility.

Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri concluded with urging the audience to adopt the principles of Futuwwa in their daily lives. He reminded them that the ultimate goal of the spiritual journey is not wealth, power, or even paradise but the proximity and pleasure of Allah. This proximity, he explained, can only be achieved through self-sacrifice, generosity, and unwavering commitment to the betterment of others.

The lecture ended with a reflection on the importance of purifying the heart from worldly desires to make space for the love of Allah. Shaykh Hammad Mustafa Qadri’s teachings inspired the audience to re-evaluate their priorities and embody the noble traits of Futuwwa in every aspect of their lives.